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Conflict is your best friend and a great ingredient for true love
The following is an expert from The Emotionally Secure Couple. Chapter 8 deals with conflict. The book can be bought wherever quality books are sold and at our offices. Storytellers love conflict. Seriously. Think about our modern-day bards—they all tell tales of high conflict. This conflict gives the hero or heroine in the story purpose…
When Being With the Ones You Love is Unhealthy
The Christmas season has a way of bringing to the surface truths we have spent the rest of the year managing. Don’t get me wrong, I love Christmas and New Year’s. I love the deep quiet that comes from the cold, heavy snow. The feeling of a “reset.” And yet, there almost always seems to…
It’s not what happens, it’s how we attach meaning that matters
I was talking to a seasoned couple the other day. They were relaying a story that had happened to them in their everyday life. They were laughing about it. I asked them if they understood how many couples would have been fighting over the very same thing that they were laughing about. The husband looked…
Our thoughts, their words, Our words, their thoughts
One of the things that I am constantly pondering is my inner dialogue and the inner dialogue of those around me. Depending on who you read, it is estimated that we have somewhere near 60,000 thoughts a day. Some suggests that almost 80% of those are negative. If that’s true, that means we have almost…
Learning how to engage your partner (even in conflict).
Let's talk about something you will learn at this year's Hopes and Dreams Conference. Do me a favor. Take out a piece of paper and draw a circle in it. Now write out some things that go on in your life anywhere else on the paper. Work….hobbies…family…faith…charity…etc. Now write in the middle of that circle…
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Your life is written by the choices you make: Thoughts provoked by Hamilton the Musical
My daughter asked me what I thought about the musical and I told her that I loved it because I believe there are only two stories ever told; stories of brokenness and stories of redemption. Sometimes, both brokenness and redemption are weaved throughout the story.
To me, that is what makes Hamilton so profound. It tells the story of brokenness and redemption. It shows the messiness that is life.
