4 myths of change
4 Potential Myths:
1. Self-Change is Simple
2. It Just Takes Willpower
so you say you want to change. what stage do you find yourself in?
If you are someone who wants to bring change into your life, I encourage you to consider where on this continuum you might find yourself. I cannot tell you how many clients I have spent time with only to have them leave frustrated because they thought that they were in the action step and in reality they were much more in step 1 or step 2. If you are not ready to change, that’s OK. No one is here to judge you for that, but it is important that you find the courage to admit that you are not ready to change yet.
Wounds, Love and Marriage
If you are married, I'd like to ask you a few questions: What is your greatest wound from your youth? How has it impacted your marriage? What is your greatest fear regarding your marriage? What is your spouse's greatest wound? How does it effect your marriage? What is your spouse's greatest fear regarding your marriage?…
The Problem with Counseling…
Obviously, the counselor is not that well trained and did not get a very good education. Her ears must be plugged, or she’s just a terrible listener. So the client tries again to explain that while he really does need to make a few changes what really needs to happen is:
Does Marriage Revolve Around Money, Power and Love?
I was once told that Marriage revolved around three distinct things. They are: 1. Money 2. Power 3. Love Do you agree? The person telling me this argued that everything came back to these three things. To be honest, I'm not sure that I agree but I am still chewing on it a bit. What are…
Abuse | Dating | Relationships
Are You in Danger of Being Abused?
Are you dating an abuser? Research by F. Scott Reyburn PhD When a woman’s assailant is an intimate partner or ex-partner, the injury rate is about 52%, when it is a stranger, only 20%. More women are murdered by one of these men than any other type. Guys don’t come with warning…
Is Your Marriage Mortal?
Is your marriage mortal? Can it die?
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Why Blog? I Hope…
I've been bloggin for a long time. I have been part of numerous group blogs and I help administrate a few other blogs. Yet, the question kind of sits there like the proverbial elephant in the living room. Why blog? Blogs can be really great places to exchange information. Of course, they can also have…