Forgiveness is only effective when we walk in it. Both people have to walk in it. The person doing the forgiving must give up the hurt, anger and the need for revenge, while the person being forgiven must give up the desire to justify or live in the guilt. Forgiveness is both a one time event and a continuing process. (60)
Similar Posts
Points to Ponder (100 words or less)
Actions are not always words, but words are almost always actions. Choose both carefully. They either build relationships or they tear them down. Pretending that words are just words is a silly dodge. (33)
Media Monday (6). Three questions to improve every relationship.
If you ask these three questions, you will improve every relationship that you have. Media Monday is a series where I focus on something that I have created in another form of media.
Somone didn’t want to grow up: What do you think? #1
I heard this the other day, what do you think? "When you take away all of the BS, all of the veneer and remove all of the name calling and blaming that goes on in a divorce 90% of the time what happened was someone didn't want to grow up."
Points to Ponder (100 words or less)
Success seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go. -William Feather (17)
Points to Ponder (100 words or less) *Fewer for you grammar police peeps*
“We have difficulty as a nation — this is American, and it relates to our particular time — we have difficulty admiring people. We take such pride in our skepticism. But the natural antithesis of skepticism, the celebration and virtue of accomplishment, is wandering lost somewhere. It is the age of the antihero.” (51) ~Bill…
Those who disagree with us are not our enemies.
We have to develop the ability to hold two things in our minds at once. I pray that we return to being people who value questions. We need to step away from our identity politics and embrace that those who disagree with us are also people just like us. We have to fight against our normal nature of craving certainty. Certainty is good until it becomes the thing destroying us. There is no such thing as a life or a relationship without danger and disagreement.