Don’t worry about how other people will perceive it. I recently talked with a woman about her current self-view and childhood. She related to me the story of her high school math class. It was the day she would find out if she had done enough to pass her class. She had worked as hard…
An obvious risk of our societal obsession with being a victim is that there is little room for optimism. There is a minimal cultural payoff to being optimistic. If our identity is rooted in our victimhood, in the traumas that have befallen us, changing the outcomes of those traumas would be counterintuitive. Optimism- the act of hoping and believing those outcomes could change would not only be counterintuitive but would actually prove to be a threat to collective societal conscience.
The mistreatment of men within society is an often overlooked but significant issue that can have profound effects on men’s mental health. Men are more than 3.5 times more likely to die by suicide than women. Societal expectations and stereotypes impose rigid standards on masculinity, discouraging vulnerability and emotional expression. Men may feel pressured to conform to notions of stoicism, suppressing their emotional struggles. This societal pressure to constantly appear invulnerable can lead to feelings of isolation and inadequacy, exacerbating mental health challenges. Additionally, issues such as the stigma surrounding men seeking help or discussing mental health openly further contribute to the silent suffering experienced by many men. Recognizing and addressing these harmful societal norms is crucial, fostering an environment that encourages emotional expression, empathy, and support for men to maintain their mental well-being.
Mike and Ashley came to see me because they wanted their relationship to improve. There were no affairs, and there was no abuse. They just didn’t feel connected. Married for almost 12 years, they had four kids, two dogs, and a lovely house. Their cars were paid off, and they had very little debt. He worked…
It seemed like such an easy answer, but the way he posed it, I knew something was up. He said good, not great.
What he was really asking was how will you measure your life? I love this question; it can terrify me depending on the day.
ind inspiration in the stories shared, gaining valuable insights on prioritizing what truly matters and creating a fulfilling journey through the days ahead. Whether it’s seizing opportunities, fostering meaningful connections, or pursuing passions, this episode serves as a catalyst for reflection and action, motivating everyone to live a life that resonates with significance.
If you embrace that life is hard, your life will be different, not because it’s magically easier but because embracing the expectation that life is hard helps us transcend the hardness of life.
As the dawn of a new year emerges, it presents a unique opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth. The transition from one year to the next allows us to pause, contemplate our journey, and envision the path we aspire to tread in the future. It is a natural checkpoint for assessing the alignment between our…
The swift passage of time is a phenomenon universally experienced, marked by its relentless pace that seems to accelerate as one reflects on the past. Moments slip through our fingers like sand, leaving us in awe of how swiftly days turn into years. The concept of time’s fleeting nature becomes increasingly palpable with age, as…
It’s Thanksgiving. My favorite holiday! And for many, it’s been a challenging year. And for others, holidays are often tough and challenging days full of pain, sorrow, and disappointment. But…But what happens if we intentionally take this time to be thankful no matter our circumstances? What would happen if we were to create a rhythm…
