After the affair -

It’s not the what, it’s the what. Two important questions regarding your desires.

ByJoe Martino April 16, 2012

I want to lose 50 pounds…. I want to write a novel… I want to travel to France… I want to help children in Africa… I want to start a small business… I want my marriage to be better than it is… I want my relationship with my child/parent to be restored… We all have…

I screwed up…now what? I feel bad.

ByJoe Martino June 8, 2011

One of the common issues that I deal with in couples counseling is related to the aftermath of mistakes. A spouse cheats A spouse uses painful words like a scalpel to cut as deeply as possible. An angry outbursts scares the bejezus out of a spouse A secret offense is brought to light. The list…