Strong emotions often arise when we face disagreements on important issues. In these moments, it’s easy to become consumed by anger and, in turn, dehumanize those who hold opposing views. This tendency can emerge in debates over something as simple as dietary choices or as complex as today’s pressing political issues. However, this reaction carries…
Life isn’t fair—but the sooner we accept that, the more empowered we become. Years ago, a friend shared four simple yet profound life rules with me, and they completely transformed my perspective. Over time, I added one more and have made it my mission to share them with anyone willing to listen. I want to…
In today’s world, it’s easy to cut ties with people we disagree with—but is that the healthiest approach? This episode explores how emotionally strong and mentally healthy people navigate relationships with those with different opinions, beliefs, or values. Instead of villainizing or pushing them away, they practice empathy, curiosity, and respect, maintaining meaningful connections even…
The truth has a way of demanding to be seen. Anything we refuse to face—our fears, pain, regrets, or even our deepest desires—will find a way to control us. It lingers in the background, shaping our choices, limiting our freedom, and keeping us stuck in patterns we don’t understand. But here’s the good news: we…
We’re almost through January, and for many, this is when those well-intentioned New Year’s resolutions have died a fast, quick death (look up quitting Friday). If you feel like your goals have hit a dead end, don’t throw in the towel just yet! In this episode, I’ll share a proven strategy I’ve used with countless…
This marks our final episode of the year as we take a well-deserved pause to reflect, recharge, and prepare for an exciting and successful launch into 2025. We’re deeply grateful for every one of you who has joined us on this journey and listened along the way. Thank you for your support, time, and energy—see…
The Antidote for Anxiety: How Gratitude and Thankfulness Can Transform Worry We just returned from Thanksgiving weekend, and I thoroughly enjoyed spending time with my family and friends. And yet… And yet, more and more people I talk to seem to be experiencing greater and greater amounts of stress, anxiety, and worry. Rising living costs,…
In a recent episode, I casually mentioned feeling tired and weary, almost in passing. The response was overwhelming—many of you responded with kind words, concern, and a recurring sentiment: “It’s nice to know you’re human.” This struck a chord and got me thinking. As counselors, we’re often seen as the ones with the answers, but…
Thanksgiving is almost upon us. With its coming, the holiday season will be upon us, and the season’s rush will be in full force. The truth is that our expectations and hopes for the holidays can often be far different from reality. The holiday season, often envisioned as a time of joy and togetherness, can…
Election season can bring a wave of emotions, often causing anxiety as people anticipate the outcomes and consider their potential impact on daily life. The heightened media coverage, debates, social media conversations, and discussions around complex issues can become overwhelming, leading to what experts call “election anxiety.” And now, on the day of the election,…
