Strong emotions often arise when we face disagreements on important issues. In these moments, it’s easy to become consumed by anger and, in turn, dehumanize those who hold opposing views. This tendency can emerge in debates over something as simple as dietary choices or as complex as today’s pressing political issues. However, this reaction carries significant risks. Let’s explore the potential dangers of this behavior and consider how we can cultivate more respectful, constructive conversations that promote healing and a healthier society. Episode 298 is available now.
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