Each one of us responds to life stressful's situations the way we do for a reason. We are hardwired as human beings—truly created and programmed to:
At the heart of these factors are two essential questions that all of us instinctively ask:
~Tim Clifton and Joshua Straub in God Attachment
Our first question has been selected for Joe Knows. Here’s how it works: People submit a question. A question is chosen at random by someone associated with me (or me) solely at our discretion. The question is posted and you our readers are given a week to answer and offer advice. One week after the…
As a counselor, I am often tasked with helping people create and experience change in their lives. I often walk this road with couples. I often talk to them about the fact that they have to choose to be vulnerable or to not be vulnerable, but without vulnerability I don't know how change happens. The…
Recently, I had a fun talk with a friend. I was talking about my upcoming day. “I’m going to take my wife to do a little necessary shopping, then take her for a pedicure and my girls to get their nails painted.” “At a nail salon?” “Yep,” I replied preparing to move onto the next…
My friend Michelle Luce sent me an article she wrote on this topic today. In it she shares the following quote. “But if you gush over mediocrity, there’s no way to distinguish truly outstanding. If the losers get the same trophies as the winners, what’s the point of even trying?”http://changingminds.org/articles/articles11/why_giving_trophy.htm ~Lisa Earle McLeod
Dates have to be adaptive. If you have children, this is just a reality of life. You cannot expect life to continue at your pace. If you don’t have children, you still know what I’m talking about. This past week, my wife and I planned our first date for the challenge early in the week….
Thanksgiving is almost upon us. With its coming, the holiday season will be upon us, and the season’s rush will be in full force. The truth is that our expectations and hopes for the holidays can often be far different from reality. The holiday season, often envisioned as a time of joy and togetherness, can…
