Actions are not always words, but words are almost always actions. Choose both carefully. They either build relationships or they tear them down. Pretending that words are just words is a silly dodge. (33)
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Points to Ponder (100 Words or Less)
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Points to Ponder (100 words or less)
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From pain to emotional security.
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