We hear about boundaries a lot, and sometimes, what we hear is correct and accurate. Unfortunately, sometimes, the term is used as a weapon for bullies to say what they want to say without any pushback from anyone else. These are not boundaries.
We have weaponized the statement, “I don’t feel safe,” and it’s time we walk back from the brink. Listen here or in your favorite podcast store.
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